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June 28, 2020

6:57
How can I show myself love?
3:07
How to stop “intellectualizing” everything
3:43
Can exes be friends?
4:27
Shame, Guilt, and Embarassment
4:15
Are there “healthy” insecurities?
6:02
Best thing to do for kids today?
3:35
What are your thoughts on stoicism?
5:02
What’s the point of being single?

March 26, 2020

3:33
AMA from quarantine
4:35
What the fuck is chemistry?
1:54
Do you still struggle with insecurities from your past?
2:39
What is a best friend?
1:44
Focusing less on aspects of my girlfriend
3:13
Advice on binge eating
1:48
Why do I fear having friends in different social circles
4:30
Is dating harder for men than it is for women?
2:19
How do you know when you’ve written something good?
3:37
What’s a day in the life of a writer like?
2:17
Have you found happiness?

November 24, 2019

6:02
Why did you choose to commit to your wife?
7:45
How do you go from anxious to secure attachment?
7:12
Sex and marriage: how to keep it spicy?
12:09
Why do powerful men sexually harass/assault women?

August 19, 2019

1:42
AMA 9 Introduction – Book tour wrap up and some AMA housekeeping
7:35
When are your standards for dating too high, physically and otherwise?
0:44
What are some good social habits?
3:34
How to deal with people who treat you as if you’re inferior?
3:19
How do I feel like my whole life doesn’t revolve around my job?
2:48
How often do you daydream about your goals and does it ever get in the way?
1:54
Best practices for texting a romantic interest?
1:01
What will you give a fuck about when you’re 60?
3:40
Dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder

April 15, 2019

4:14
How can I achieve internal, not external validation?
1:44
What is the best way to overcome anxiety of regret?
1:18
Is your wife actually interested in your work?
1:58
Should you date someone before you’re in love?
2:02
Why are bad habits so easy to pick up?
5:14
What do you eat? How do you keep healthy?
3:14
How do you reconcile “fuck yes” with not trusting ourselves?
5:06
How do I cope with not belonging to my community?
4:08
Should you tolerate toxic relationships with family?

February 6, 2019

12:00
What is the best way to deal with your demons? / How do you learn to love yourself unconditionally?
6:06
Do you think it’s important to specialize in a specific task?
6:33
What’s the difference between a manageable shortcoming in a friend/partner and a red flag?
3:45
Is it possible to continue to grow without fully forgiving those who have harmed/neglected you?
4:37
What should I look for in a therapist?
7:07
Why is monogamy your preferred choice?
3:48
Does it bother you that we’re living in the Matrix?

November 5, 2018

12:27
What recommendations do you have for those with an overly sensitive personality?
4:04
What’s a healthy way to cope with averageness?
4:19
Should you choose a partner based on logic and reason?
1:33
How do you balance self-improvement with self-acceptance?
2:47
What is the self-limited beliefs you found most difficult to overcome?
2:23
How do you follow through on plans without validation?
0:42
What would you put on a giant billboard for thousands to see?
2:57
What would you do if you were starting your writing career today?
3:02
What do you honestly think about Facebook and other social media?
4:47
How much space do you and your wife give each other and are you interested in each other’s work?

September 14, 2018

8:08
How and where did you meet your wife? What do we like the most/least about each other?
3:21
How do you re-write narratives to get out of the victim mentality?
2:54
Do you know any 50+-year-olds who did NOT have kids and don’t regret it?
6:26
Are you familiar with Jordan Peterson and if so, what are your opinions on his stances, both social and political?
4:21
What are your Top 5 movies and why?
5:00
There’s so much I want to pursue in my life, how do I determine the thing I want to pursue?
5:05
I always hear “Never give up” as a motivational tool. When should I say “Fuck it” and give up?
7:00
How do you know when you should get married?
2:02
What does it feel like to have found one’s purpose?
3:19
What would you say is the most controversial opinion you hold?
2:30
Are you writing another book and if so what is it about?
3:38
How have you internally handled being around people with shitty values?

May 31, 2018

4:16
How can you gain confidence in yourself?
4:17
How to get over jealousy
6:22
Can we actually change?
3:13
Are promiscuous people ruined for monogamy?
1:06
What do you think of dating apps?
4:43
Dealing with narcissistic people
2:54
Passion vs. Practicality
4:01
Dealing with past abuse, bullying, and intimacy
1:06
Can we get a reading list?
4:03
Is it OK to tell white lies?
0:40
How to get better with groups
1:28
Do you ever take lazy days?
0:53
When ‘fuck yes’ makes you say no too much
2:23
What’s your take on familial duty?
2:45
How do I deal with injustice?
1:21
Breaking a “self-help addiction”
0:39
More on honesty
3:14
Staying positive dating in your 30s
3:31
Do you want children?

February 14, 2018

6:06
How to make fulfilling friendships?
7:02
How do I know I’m doing/being enough?
7:35
How do you know you’re with the right person?
3:36
How to switch careers with little/no experience?
4:30
Where do you find “the one”?
3:00
How the fuck am I supposed to meet a guy?
1:12
What is currently blowing your mind?
0:36
How do you know when you’re not giving enough fuck
6:26
Where’s the line between self-respect/entitlement?
5:35
Why people can’t accept women who don’t want kids

October 27, 2017

3:12
When the world is a steaming pile of shit
4:36
How to stop being a dreamer and start being a doer
4:49
How to act without expectation
3:55
Essential areas of compatibility in a relationship
3:51
What to do when neediness comes back?
4:35
Why is turning 30 such a difficult age?
1:22
How to make up for lost time as a fuck up
3:27
Why are we so fearful of rejection?
4:26
What the fuck does it all mean anyway?
2:53
How do you balance/prioritize your life?
2:18
Are our brains ready for monogamy?
5:36
The state of masculinity today
5:00
Should we own houses or cars at all?

July 18, 2017

2:59
Balancing wanting more with with being content
1:24
Have you experienced profound periods of nihilism?
1:40
How can you become more comfortable with conflict?
3:53
How do we cope in a world that’s changing so fast?
2:07
How to know if you’re emotionally stable
2:57
What do you think about ethical non-monogamy?
3:38
The ethics of pornography, sex clubs, casual sex
2:12
What’s the fastest way to beat low self-esteem
4:40
How do you separate the gold from the shit?
3:36
How to create intention-fulfilled relationships
3:09
Abolishing competition in schools
2:50
What’s the best way to point out real sexism?
2:23
What would you change about humanity if you could?
6:19
Thoughts on white privilege in the 21st century
0:40
How do you find the place where you belong?
2:33
Why do some people stay stuck in their worldviews?
4:18
What do think you makes a best-selling book?
1:49
Changes you’ve experienced as a bestselling author
5:48
Was there any inclination to coast after the book?

August 2, 2016

27:26
3 Core Components of a Healthy Relationship

May 11, 2016

34:19
Brilliant or Bullshit: MBTI Personality Tests