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Why You Should Waste More Time

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    Kurt Vonnegut once told a story about needing an envelope.

    His wife told him:

    “Just buy a hundred online and keep them in the closet.”

    Vonnegut’s response?

    “I pretended not to hear her. And went out to get an envelope because I have a hell of a good time in the process. I meet a lot of people. And see some great looking babies. And a fire engine goes by. And I give them the thumbs up.”

    Optimization culture wants us to believe life is a machine—you tweak it, hack it, make it run faster.

    But you’re not a machine.

    You’re a messy, dancing, wonderfully inefficient human who damn well deserves to give the thumbs up to some great looking babies.

    That’s what Vonnegut was pointing out: all the things the world tells you are “inefficiencies” are where life actually happens.

    People try to optimize every moment because they’re scared sh*tless of wasting their life.

    Ironically, that fear guarantees they’ll never actually live it.

    Slow down. Linger. Drift a little.

    That’s where the good stuff is.

    See you Monday,
    Mark Manson

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