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2016
March 31How Your Insecurity Is Bought and Sold
March 17Maybe You Don’t Know What Love Is
February 11An Open Letter To Brazil (versão em português)
January 285 Massive Books That Are Worth Your Time
January 7Your Goals Are Overrated
2015
December 17Shut Up and Be Patient
November 23Why I Have a Potty Mouth
October 22Screw Finding Your Passion
September 17Romance Is Like Alcohol
August 20The Solution to All of Your Life’s Problems
August 6How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship
July 205 Things That Should Be Taught in Every School
July 12Everything You Wanted to Know about Procrastination but Were Too Lazy to Figure Out
June 18In Defense of Being Average
May 21The Four Stages of Life
April 23Why People Cheat in Relationships
April 27 Books That Will Change How You See The World
March 12The Confidence Conundrum
February 26The Staggering Bullshit of “The Secret”
January 8The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck
2014
December 4In The Future, Our Attention Will Be Sold
November 663 Steps to Survive The Worst Moments of Your Life
October 16How To Break Hearts and Risk Losing Everything
October 2No, You Can’t Have It All
September 187 Strange Questions That Help You Find Your Life Purpose
September 35 Life Lessons From 5 Years of Traveling the World
August 28It’s Not All Your Parents’ Fault
August 6Your Next Big Life-Changing Breakthrough is Already Happening
July 3Love is Not Enough
May 27How We All Miss the Point on School Shootings
May 21The Four Engines that Accelerate Language and Life
May 86 Healthy Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Toxic
April 23Why I Chose Who I Chose
April 22683 Ways to Fail to Get a Job Offer
March 2010 Life Lessons to Excel in Your 30s
March 610 Life Lessons I Learned from Surviving My 20s
February 20The Hidden Costs of Happiness
February 133 Simple Explanations for Why You’re Still Single
January 23A Brief History of Male/Female Relations
January 9How We Judge Others is How We Judge Ourselves
2013
December 113 Things School Taught You Without You Even Realizing It
November 21Why I’m Wrong About Everything (And So Are You)
November 6The Most Important Question of Your Life
October 309 Subtle Lies We All Tell Ourselves
October 10Stop Trying To Be Happy
October 27 Things Sex Education Should Have Taught Us But Didn’t
September 19Find What You Love and Let It Kill You
September 5How Do You Measure Your Life?
August 29Winning the Mental Battle of Weight Loss: How One Man Lost 266 Pounds
August 22Being Special Isn’t So Special
August 15Why Everyone on the Internet is an Asshole
August 86 Toxic Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Normal
August 5The Rise of Fundamentalist Belief
July 29You Already Have Everything You Need
July 22Why Some Dreams Should Not Be Pursued
July 1712 Stupid Things People Care About Way Too Much
July 10The Dark Side of the Digital Nomad
July 8Fuck Yes or No
May 28Change Your Mind About Dating
May 22How to Read Faster and Retain More
May 16How Disney Ruined Sex For Everyone
April 23The Vulnerability Primer
April 16How Terrorism Works
April 11Sex and Our Psychological Needs
April 4The One Trait to Look For In A Partner
April 3How to Date an Emotionally Stable and Amazing Person
April 2Why Everyone You Date Is A Psycho
March 145 Life Lessons I Learned From Playing Guitar
March 1133 Things Every Aspiring Entrepreneur Should Know
February 14How to Break Up Gracefully
February 11Surviving a Suicidal Mind
February 620 Paradoxes That Are True
January 21The Bad Acid Trip
January 17You’re Okay
January 14The Guide to Strong Boundaries
January 11“Check, Please” – A Short Story About Perspective
January 4The Dismal State of Flirting in English-Speaking Cultures
2012
December 28Vulnerability and Avoiding Manipulative Relationships
December 17Shut Up and Be Grateful
December 125 Problems with the Self-Help Industry
December 7Your Two Minds
November 30How to 80/20 Your Life
November 9The Guide to Being Miserable
October 19The Borders of Sexual Harassment
October 8An Open Letter to My 18-Year-Old Self
September 19Wanderlust
September 3The Prime Belief
August 29The Theory of Meta-Awesomeness
August 2010 Reasons Why You Fail
August 13How to Make Your Own Luck
July 14How To Quit Your Day Job And Travel The World
July 1010 Things Most Americans Don’t Know About America
June 14Minimalism
June 11It’s Complicated: Why Relationships and Dating Can Be So Hard
June 4The Rise And Fall of Ken Wilber
May 2422 Tips For Learning A Foreign Language
May 14Diversify Your Identity
May 1Analysis Paralysis
April 26Evolution and Sexual Behavior
April 23Do You Need Therapy?
April 16The Ipanema Boardwalk
April 13Meditation: Why You Should Do It
April 9When The Fall Comes
March 28Are You An Emotional Vampire?
March 26Pornography Can Ruin Your Sex Life
February 21The Simple Joys are the Most Meaningful
2011
December 26The “Do Something” Principle
December 12Attachment Theory
December 6A Dust Over India
December 2Interviewing Like a Boss
November 28How I Quit Smoking For Good
November 17My Girlfriend Just Dumped Me
October 31Your Honest-to-God Guide to STDs
September 5The Levels of Eye Contact
August 20How to Give Advice Without Being a Condescending Asshole
July 7Power in Vulnerability
May 17Woman Lovers and Woman Haters
January 21The Three Loves Theory
2010
December 21The Wisdom of Surfing
December 17Compatibility and Chemistry in Relationships
September 19The Zen Dilemma
August 9This Is Water